A lot of men and women have the fantasy of inviting another woman into their bedroom. For some, it is just a fantasy, for some it can become a reality. Whether you are married or dating, poly or in an open relationship, the most important step is communication and consent with all involved parties.
As a woman with a cuckquean fetish, I can walk you through the process, but please always remember that there are other people involved and they aren’t actors to just play out your fantasy. They are people with their own needs and wants as well.
I do not recommend jumping headfirst into having a woman (cake, unicorn) fuck your husband. You need to feel this out slowly so that you do not do harm to your relationship. Men, if you just want a threesome, that is an entirely different thing. So make sure you all agree on what you are looking for.
There are many different types of cuckqueans. Some cuckqueans want to share their hot husband. For others, it can be the humiliation of being cheated on. It can include jealousy, pride, or a combination. There is no wrong way to be a cuckquean!
Step 1: Discussion: Women, what is your fantasy? Do you want control or do you want to be degraded? There are no wrong answers. Do you want to pick the other woman, what do you want to see happen, how do you want to participate? Do you have things that you do not want to happen? It is so important to say what you want and what you don’t want. These things MUST also be discussed with your partner and potential third. No one can read your mind. Be explicit. Do you get turned on talking about being a cuckquean, use that as dirty talk or foreplay.
Step 2: Testing: Have your partner tell you about past sexual encounters, do you get jealous, turned on, or both, do you like that feeling? Have your partner flirt with another woman in front of you, at a party or a bar. What if he kisses her? Husbands, once you are on this step, you could try calling her another woman’s name in bed, make up a sexy story about another woman that you met that you would like to bring home. Watch cuckquean porn together, what do you like, what don’t you like?
Step 3: Small steps: Once you decide it is something you would like to try, look for sex-positive places to explore, like swinger parties and sex clubs. Almost every single adult there will be open to exploration with zero attachments. And every club or party that I have been to has been that you can participate as much as you like. So you can back up if you are moving too fast. There is never pressure to do anything. Have a safe word with your partner so you have an out.
Other tips: It is generally better to find a cake or unicorn naturally. They say make friends out of swingers, not swingers out of friends. Sex can change relationships and intimacy. Your best friend might really want to fuck your husband, but are you okay with losing her as a friend if a boundary gets crossed?
It is very important that your primary relationship is always actually made to feel like it is primary. You as a unit are the most important part of the whole equation.
As long as you guys keep good communication about each thing you try and how it makes you both feel, you could well get to a place where you both feel confident and comfortable going the whole way, but this will likely take months or years, not days or weeks. Don't jump straight to the end with both feet, walk to that destination together.
Have fun!
xoxo, Suzanne
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